Saturday, December 11, 2010

Love

Hey guys,
Just a lil thought to share.
Im sure everyone have seen the news online, young Msian killed himself by jumping off his apartment because he loved his girlfriend so much and was unable to wisthand the pain of having to break up with her.
(1st note though, not all Msians are like dat)

Isn't it silly?

There's really nothing more I can say bout him.
That was his call and he decided,
He's chilling with Jesus now and there's really nothing more that I say would possibly reach to him now.
He's dead and gone.

We were all brought down to this Earth by God.
HE planted a mission inside us that we were supposed to find out for ourselves.
Its not easy, this is definitely a very long and suffering route to take.
But thats life, thats the point we came down here.
And you might not succeed in the end.
But Jesus is gracious, in the end Im sure we will find what we were looking for in life.

Alviss claimed he died for love.
He was blind, the thing he called love was attraction, a hormonal stimulation by the nerves in the brain. Or maybe he did loved her.
But is that the only Love?
What bout the love for your parents?
The so many years relationship you had living with them,
The sweat, tears and blood they used to bring you up.
The hard effort they took! the effort you took to get along with them!
Would you call that tolerance, symphathy?
Its not easy to always get along with them, I KNOW!
but things were never easy, if you were expecting something easy from the moment you were born, go live under a rock.

You might think that you never had true friends who cared.
But everyone have their own lives to lead, they cant be looking after you 24/7.
But werent they always there, on the phone with you when you needed them so badly?
Werent they the ones who put down the work and listen to you when you had problems.
The fun times you had together, the memories you share,
Are those things you would throw away for a brief moment of escape?



Life runs in a huge circle.
Its an endless chain.
Everything and everybody is connected to each other in some way or another.
Even brief strangers we meet on the streets,
dont you sometimes feel a spark of familiarity?
We indirectly affect each other, intentionally or not.

It was a silly thing to do,
I know how much you must have loved her, but as long as you stay on,
retain your sole identity as a homo sapiens,
work towards it, she might one day see it.
Or as time goes on, you might find, "hey, she's not all that"
The moment you decided to go back to Jesus, you lost all your qualifications.
Do you really think you will stay in her memories forever?
She might one day get Alzheimer and forget you some day anyway.
Was it worth it?

Please people, we all have someone we loved dearly, more then one in fact.
Before you make a rash decision, please remember to always always think about these people.
Your actions affect them
It cause pain to them more then anybody else.
They grief and they hurt too.
In fact, more then you.
Dont be selfish, you're not alone.

I have someone I wished dearly to be alive, to continue her dreams and her vibrant.
To continue coloring in my world the way she did before.
It wasnt a choice for her to be taken away.
And being so far away worries me, its always my first priority to know my family and friends safety.
The grief you feel the moment you hear bad news like this is incomparable.

Remember that you are here with a dream, with a mission
be it a carreer that you work towards,
or a dream to touch people's heart.
You are here for a reason, you are now burdened with a responsibility.
Dont just leave so irresponsibily.
Appreciate life, be grateful, be thankful!
Be considerate.

Rest in peace, stranger
and condolences to his family

Rest in peace, stranger
and condolences to you.
Im sorry I couldnt do anything except to give you a chocolate bar.

If you ever ever need someone. The blogger is always here =)

6 comments:

Unknown said...

nice post!!
why give him a chocolate bar? =.=

he is so irresponsible to himself and everyone around him
honestly i dun like him 99 XD

Janice said...

HAHAHA! nolar, dat day I in library got a girl sittin next to me she crying, then i giv her chocolate bar and ask her don cry lo.. den rupa rupanya her family member pass away in korea. >________< i dunno her de leh.. so yala, she cry until very cham..>______<

Wah! go read Zone Lance's blog, got bout him, u all ngam key la, he shoot dat fella kao kao..>__< bt den suan liao la, die liao lo.. Haih.. reminds me abit of our chong hwa fren dat passed away in USA oso so i feeel abit sad..

Cheryl Leong said...

:)

oh my goodness
im living in my own world
and i dunno what is happening out there= =

Ching* May* said...

nice 1 janice!
hahaha

Lance said...

There's always a roadblock in life, break it down... or, just walk around it (or climb over it if you're adventurous).

~Buraian~ said...

The road block photo, the concept is ingenious.

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